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Keeping Your Resolutions

Posted on 01. Jan, 2013 by Dana Linn in category of Ask Melissa, Columnists, advice, Melissa DeLara, Resolutions 2013

It’s that time of year again—time for New Year’s Resolutions. I am very enthusiastic about my goals for each New Year at first, but every year I seem to give up on them sometime around April or May. How can I make resolutions for 2013 that I will actually be able to keep?Read More »

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Ask Melissa! Handling Work Stress

Posted on 25. Sep, 2012 by Dana Linn in category of Ask Melissa, Advice, advice, ask melissa, Melissa DeLara

I’ve been given more responsibility at work, which is great for my career, but it’s really stressing me out. My workload has doubled and even though I’ve been working extra hours, it feels like I will never get caught up! How can I get all of my work done without spending all of my time at the office?

Feeling overwhelmed by your additional work responsibilities is understandable! Fortunately, there are many ways for you to regain control of your work life. Here are a few fundamental ideas to help get you started.

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Ask Melissa!

Posted on 18. Sep, 2012 by Dana Linn in category of Ask Melissa, Advice, advice, ask melissa, Melissa DeLara

A coworker asked me to go on a date with him. I think he’s attractive, but I’ve been warned about workplace dating by friends who had negative experiences. I’m worried that turning him down will hurt his feelings and ruin our working relationship. What should I do?Read More »

The Power of Self-Forgiveness

Posted on 13. Sep, 2012 by Dana Linn in category of Advice, advice, Melissa DeLara

Forgiveness is one of the most powerful gifts we can give. We know the benefits of forgiving someone. We are aware that it is necessary to let go of our anger and hurt in order to move on. Saying, “I forgive you” is like lifting a heavy weight from someone’s shoulders. Knowing this, why does it seem easier to forgive others than it is to forgive ourselves?Read More »

First Date Survival Guide

Posted on 10. Sep, 2012 by Dana Linn in category of Advice, advice, dating, Melissa DeLara, relationships

When embarking on a first date, remember the old Head & Shoulders shampoo slogan: “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.” A first date should be an exciting and hopeful experience, but for most people it is accompanied by nervous anxiety. If your date preparation consists of trying on every outfit in your closet and neurotically reapplying your makeup, resulting in a messy meltdown, take a few breaths and consider these helpful tips.Read More »

Ask Melissa! Too Busy For Each Other

Posted on 03. Sep, 2012 by Dana Linn in category of Ask Melissa, Advice, advice, ask melissa, Melissa DeLara, relationships

My boyfriend and I work a lot and we have opposite schedules. We live together but it feels like I never see him. Our weekends are spent catching up on chores we don’t have time for during the week and visiting with family and friends. How can I tell him I need him to spend more time with me?Read More »

Tackling Emotional Clutter

Posted on 03. Aug, 2012 by suz in category of Advice, advice, Melissa DeLara

We all have that one closet that is used to store things that are no longer useful but that we can't seem to throw away, right? We keep throwing more and more stuff in that closet until there is no room left. The door won't even close! Then one day, we decide to clear everything out by figuring out what we want to keep and want we want to throw away (or give away).

So we know how to eliminate household clutter, but what should we do about emotional clutter?Read More »

Ask Melissa!

Posted on 29. Jul, 2012 by Dana Linn in category of Ask Melissa, Advice, advice, ask melissa, Melissa DeLara, pets

My friend just got the cutest puppy and I’m so jealous! I’ve wanted a pet for a while, but I’m not sure if it’s the best idea for me. Do you have any advice?Read More »

Ask Melissa!

Posted on 24. Jul, 2012 by Dana Linn in category of Ask Melissa, Advice, advice, Melissa DeLara

All of my friends are in relationships. I can’t keep a guy interested in me for more than a few weeks. I’m so sick of being single! My friends and family are always trying to set me up with people. Even when I try to date guys, it doesn’t work out because they don’t like me. What’s wrong with me?Read More »

Worst Resume Blunders Ever

Posted on 14. Jul, 2012 by Dana Linn in category of Weird News, advice, career, Colleen Walsh-Jervis

There are a few things to keep in mind when applying for a job. Most importantly, don’t write a death threat on the back of your application. You should probably leave out your scamming hobby, too. These tips may seem obvious, but recent news stories and a study commissioned by Career Builder have shown that common sense isn’t common among some job seekers.Read More »